Why does my cat gently bite me? Well, a soft bite is usually neither defensive nor aggressive. Your cat is either giving you a love bite and showing affection, simply trying to get your attention because they are bored, or is warning you that they have had enough affection and would like you to leave them alone.
Read on to learn more…
Why Does My Cat Gently Bite Me?
There are all sorts of scenarios in which your cat might softly or gently bite you.
Sometimes when you are in bed your cat will gently bite your toes if they are sticking out of the bed. If you are stroking or petting your cat on your lap your cat may softly bite and lick your fingers. If your cat is laying on your chest in a relaxed state it might suddenly grip your nose or arm with its teeth in a soft bite. As you walk by they might softly bite your ankle.
All these instances are generally good-natured interactions. They usually boil down to playfulness, affection, attention-seeking, or a gentle warning not to go further.
If your cat has a gentle nibble as you walk by it is most likely playful and driven by boredom. If your cat bites your feet whilst you sleep it is probably attention-seeking and boredom – they want you to wake up.
In most other situations where your cat is lying on you or being petted by you, soft biting is usually called cat love bites – but if your cat becomes overstimulated they may use a gentle bite to signal they want you to cease your petting! This overstimulated biting is called petting aggression.
Should I Let My Cat Gently Bite Me?
There is no real problem with letting your cat gently bite you. When you see bonded cats grooming they will often use little nibbles and bites mixed with fur licking to groom each other. Basically, a gentle or soft bite can be a natural way for your cat to show affection for you and to bond with you.
In some circumstances though you don’t really want your cat’s affection or attention-seeking – like when you are asleep. You don’t really want your cat biting your toes or softly biting your nose as you are trying to sleep!
Additionally, if your cat is giving you a little warning nip you don’t want to miss the vital clues.
If you need to stop your cat from gently biting, have a look at some of our tips…
Can I Stop My Cat Gently Biting Me?
You can stop your cat from gently biting you. Here are some useful tactics that you can employ to reduce or eliminate this behavior.
Have Some Playtime
Make sure you give your cat some organized fun. A thirty-minute play session where you get your cat hunting toys and running around will satisfy the hunting instinct, reduce boredom, provide some mental stimulation and your cat will know that you have given them some attention and been part of the fun.
A bit of play can help eliminate the boredom bites at night time on your toes, the gentle taps and random bites as you walk past your cat, and the random attacks which are generally motivated by boredom and attention-seeking.
Exercise Careful Petting To Avoid Overstimulation.
Some of those gentle and soft bites are warnings that you have gone too far when stroking your cat. Petting aggression can be reduced if you learn your cat’s level of tolerance. Does your cat put up with a couple of strokes to an area of the body before they react or can they take several minutes of petting? Note what brings your cat to the edge and avoid the edge from here on in.
If your cat just latches on to your arm or even face when they jump in your lap or on your chest then consider restricting attention to their head area only and perhaps even reduce the time they are allowed to settle on you.
Stroke Areas That Are Safe, Avoid Vulnerable Areas.
Some of those soft bites are warnings that you are approaching vulnerable areas of their body. The classic is the reaction bite to a tummy rub. The cat will spot an incoming hand approaching its belly and will immediately launch a gentle warning bite. If you continue then they become agitated and aggressive.
Learn the areas that your cat has decided are off-limits and avoid those areas if you don’t want a gentle reminder to bite! Often cats will react to belly, rear paws, and base of the tail petting as these are areas that tend to be subject to attack as they are running away from a confrontation – they are vulnerable spots that are hard for your cat to really defend so they react strongly.
Keep Your Cat Out Of The Bedroom To Get A Good Night’s Sleep
If you have a problem with a toe biter, a cat that attacks your feet, or a cat that wakes you with a nibble to the nose then perhaps it is time to consider keeping them out of the bedroom.
It can be a good idea to put a cat in their own room for a night – it makes them feel territorially secure, and you get a decent night’s sleep.
Just be sure to provide them with adequate access to facilities so they have no excuse to cause trouble – and be aware that initially changing their routine by restricting access to your sleeping quarters is likely to be met with complaints until they adjust!
Why does your cat gently bite you? Because they want to share affection, get your attention, alleviate boredom or give you a warning! If your cat breaks skin then you have an altogether different problem! To reduce gentle soft bites be aware of your cat’s behavior prior to the incident and either reduce stimulation, provide some entertainment, or cut off the activities you know cause this soft biting.